The Real Image

       I am guy who is straight forward and care for things all around me even if it is a plant or my pet animal. When I was in my PG doing my 1st semester there was an incident which taught me what life is and what people’s attitude towards their close friends is.
Once there was a situation where we have to select our electives.

     From our class only I was interested in Hardware and Networking administration and all others were interested in Compiler Design and Data-Mining. I was the class representative so the department was considering my choice as final decision. Since I know no one other than me was interested in H/W and N/W administration I told them I don’t want to force them for my passion so you can offer the elective what they have offered.
       So they offered it and everything was going good but when we saw the performance of the elective subjects I was getting good grades than students who had really opted for it. What My class students did was they gave negative feedback for me stating that since I was more interested into data-mining, Compiler Design I opted for those electives for entire class.
      That day I realized what a big mistake I have done by caring for others by my heart. I promised myself never be your true-self for those who don’t deserve it.Be true only to yourself, parents and the almighty. Even the mirror won’t show your true image until it has to reflect all the light rays which can be possible only if the surface is smooth. We can’t expect everyone to be true to us. But we can be true to people who are true to us

SAILING YOU THROUGH WATERS

        I remember my childhood. School was eight miles from our village and we had not many options for travelling this distance. Either through bus service, or through sailing the Chambal river. The bus fare was rs. 13 and thus it was meant for only rich guys. Though dicey, we had to choose later option. It was Mohan Kaka, who sailed us through river and I still remember the lines, he used to sing while sailing “Wo path kya pathik safalta kya, jis path me bikhre shool na ho.. Aur navik ki dhairya kushalta kya, jab dharae pratikool na ho.!”.

          I was in tenth standard and my final exams were going on. The day, I had my Mathematics exam, our village witnessed one of the heaviest rainfall ever. Cloud bursts, strong winds, threatening thunderstorms and rashing blizzard lashed our village and caused flooding of river Chambal. It became next to impossible for me to reach school and the moment I was about to lose the hope, it was Mohan Kaka who gave hand to me. He became synonym to god for me. Without even caring of his own life, he sailed me to school through alluvioning Chambal.

           That day, I learnt the most important lesson of my life. Life is not about living for personal interests, it is about giving. Life is about scarifying, selfless and generous living. It is nothing else, but the attitude to live for others, which brings mental peace. Life is about exploring Mohan Kaka, hidden in each one of us. The nitty-gritty and complexities of the topsy turvy way of life can only be solved by the feeling of helping others, by looking to someone smiling and knowing that the reason behind that smile is you. Tribute to all life shapers like Mohan Kaka.

THE LOST ART

           All that is left now is that photo from the newspaper. My father had shown it to everyone and it proudly graced the wall of the living room of our small house. The Hindu had run an article on him, the famous Madhubani Painter from Mithila, Bihar. He had won the Chief Minister’s award for his work in keeping the Madhubani Art alive back in those. His joy and pride in winning the award is clearly visible in his face. The tilt of his lips into a smile tells us all that is to know.

        In our family generations of artists were born. During the time of Rajas and Maharajas, my great grandfather was a renowned Madhubani artist and his paintings were commissioned by the kings. Learning to read and write was not as important as learning to paint. As kids, we would learn to draw the perfect strokes of lines instead of learning to write the alphabet. By the time, we reached the age of 15, we could draw all the scenes from The Mahabharata and The Ramayana.

            But those days are long gone, the Madhubani art is almost extinct. People in my generation are looking for other professions instead of the age old art running in the family for generations. The paintings instead of gracing the walls in the homes of people, ended up being in train coaches and museums where people hardly glance at them. People are more attracted to the modern art than what is tradition. The Madhubani art is lost somewhere in between modernisation and urbanisation of our villages and with that my Fathers smile lost in the years and the photo just a reminder of him and his passion which shone in his eyes.