Wednesday, December 28, 2016

Mistakes: Makes Us Learn For Better Ourselves.


          Mistakes simply show us something that we didn't already know. Hmm... It sounds like those dreaded mistakes that we're so afraid of... and those dreaded mistakes that we try so hard to avoid... don't really have to be looked at as dreaded mistakes and painful experiences after all.

          We can view our mistakes through a different lens and now see a friendly, lovable mentor, or a caring, patient teacher, or maybe even a wise and winning coach that is just trying to point something out to us that we need to know, but don't already know.

          So I guess it would be beneficial for all of us to change our paradigm of mistakes from one of a foe to one of a friend. Changing this paradigm though will require one to control their thoughts. Thoughts become things. Negative thoughts put us in closer proximity to negative things.

          The good news is that we can avoid this negativity trap by just changing or model or paradigm of what mistakes really mean to us. We must control our thoughts. We must believe that mistakes are an old wise mentor pointing out a few things that we don't know yet. This new way of looking at mistakes pushes us into taking action and helps us stop small mounds of trouble from growing into massive mountains of misery.

          We can avoid the Mt. Everest shadow from over-taking us by just being grateful for the small mistakes that we make today. Those small mistakes of today are just pointing out some small things that we don't already know while simultaneously helping us avoid the big, ugly, and nasty mistakes lurking in the shadows of tomorrow.

          Now moms, go learn, lead, and lay the way to a better world for all of us. Remember, mistakes are our friends because they just simply show us some things that we didn't already know. So let's control our thoughts and remember that mistakes are good because they teach us many valuable lessons. And once again, thanks in advance for all that you do, and all that you will do...

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Sunday, December 11, 2016

What is Beautiful : Everything is Beautiful.

Hello!
Have you ever wondered what is really beautiful? Let me take you to a tour of what is really beautiful.

When a Mother and her two twins child are playing on a beach in the evening then you will say wow.. It's beautiful.

When a Father and her daughter are playing in the garden and father is saying to his daughter let's go, but daughter is saying 10 more minutes please dad and father says okay, then you will say wow.. It's beautiful.

When a couple is enjoying their weekend with their child on a hill station and then you will say wow.. It's beautiful.

When a grandfather, father and his child are playing together in the garden which is full of awesome flowers and that by seeing that you will say wow.. It's beautiful.

When two sisters are sitting together on a bench and sharing their problems, supporting each other and smiling together then you will say wow.. It's beautiful.

When you open your social site in mobile and suddenly you see picture of a person with whom you are not in touch with for long time then you will say wow.. It's beautiful.

When you are standing in the balcony of 16th floor flat and you see natural beauty then you will say wow.. It's beautiful.

When you are wondering on a street and you see suddenly it's started raining and due to that everything looks differently awesome and also you see a rainbow in the sky then you will say wow.. It's beautiful.

Thank you so much for your precious time. Please do share your ideas about what you think is beautiful.
You can also share it with your friends and other people. Thank you!

Wednesday, November 23, 2016

SIX PARADIGMS OF HUMAN INTERACTION

Think about how you are interacting with other people in your life as well as in business.

Here are six different kind of paradigms that can categorise people into six types.

1) WIN/WIN Paradigm

These are people who think for themselves to win and also with them they want others also to win with them.
Let us take an example.
If someone owns a store and he need win then he need to win his customers so that he can have long term relation with them and can get profit. In the same manner form where he import the stock for them he is a customer and the supplier would like to win over his customer. So, in the manner if they stick with win/win paradigm it will benefit both of them.

2) WIN/LOSE Paradigm

These are people who wants to win over other people and wants others to lose. So these doesn't have long term relation with their customer.
take an example, if you own a business and you forcefully win over your customer once, but surely that customer will not come again to the same person. So, those people will not have long term relation with them and will struggle for future build up of customer.

3) LOSE/WIN Paradigm

These are people who are usually please or appease. They have little courage for expressing their own feelings. They let others win over them and let themselves lose just in order to build a good quality relation. But people will take advantage of this kind of peoples. So, these peoples are somewhat weaker.

4) LOSE/LOSE Paradigm

Here, both side people wants to get win over other people. No one will agree to lose and don't let others to win. So, in this paradigm no person will win and both sided people will lose. So, this is the worst kind of paradigm situation.

5) WIN Paradigm

Here the person is only concerned with his win strategy. He has nothing to do with another person. These people just wants themselves success(win) and move ahead for something else.

6)NO DEAL
It basically means that if we can't find a solution that would benefit both of us, we agree to disagree-No Deal. No expectations have been created, no performance contracts established. So, basically this indirectly direct towards win/win paradigm means I want to win, and I want you to win.

Monday, November 21, 2016

Who do you work for?


A group of salesmen went to a regional sales convention in Chicago. They promised their wives that they would be home in plenty of time for Friday night's dinner. Rushing through the airport, one of these salesmen kicked over a table full of baskets of apples. Apples flew everywhere. They didn’t stop because they would have missed their plane if they did…except one.

He told his buddies to go on without him, to call his wife when they arrived home and explain his taking a later flight. Then he returned to the terminal where the apples were all over the floor and the 16 year-old girl selling them was crying softly. She was blind, on her knees, groping for the apples.

The salesman knelt on the floor with her, gathered up the apples, and helped set the display back up. As he did, he noticed some of the apples were bruised.

When he finished, he said to the girl, "Here, please take this $20 for the damage we did."

She nodded through her tears and said, "Mister, do you work for God?”

Remember to help where you can and don’t get in too big a hurry as you make a life, and not just a living.

Sunday, October 16, 2016

What do you see?


I recently came to know a story about listening to life with his grandson. They sat together, eating M&Ms. After a handful or so, the little guy started staring at one of the candies.

“What do you see?” the grandfather asked.

“Well, I see an M,” the boy said. He turned the candy slowly around about a quarter of a turn.

“Now I see a 3,” he said, and turned the candy again.

“And there’s a W,” he said, turning the candy.

“And look! There’s an E,” he told his grandfather. “And that’s all,” he said, and popped the candy in his mouth.

Amazing, isn’t it, what you can see when you just change your perspective a little bit. As little as a quarter turn in your viewpoint can open up a whole new world for you, can’t it?

Whatever you’re looking at in your life, turn it towards God and see it from God’s perspective. A whole new way of listening to life and making a life, not just a living is waiting for you when you do!