Wednesday, May 20, 2015

Craziness of Life..!!

It's being pleasing sharing my ideas with you.
        Let me tell you something great about life. In life there are mostly three things that are happening with you in your life. One is the thing that makes you happy, Second one is that makes you feel sad and another one is that neither makes you happy nor makes you sad.
           There are people that are always there for you for making you happy without any selfishness and other are that who always try to make you feel sad, unhappy and guilty.
But it depends upon yourself how you are going to treat all this people in your life. Everyone is saying that always be positive, but sometimes when i am setting alone and observing people around me it makes me feel like does all those people who are happy have defined their life's goals and desires?
           Who knows and that's why i started asking them one by one and the result was the same that i had expected.
          People who are happy and cheering up their answer was that they love their life and people around them, no matter how they treat them but still they love them and try to maintain a healthy relation with each other. They have also told me that we just love to bring love and happiness in other people's life.
            While some people around who were not looking happy they have told me that the only thing that matters in their life with other people is that they treat the other people in the same way they have treated them. If someone treat them good then simple they will also treat them in the same way. But if anyone who is not treating them well then they will also not respond in a well manner.
           So, here all i am trying to say is that no matter how people are treating us in our life, but we should treat them all equal and in a good manner. We should try to bring happiness in their life as well as in our life. Don't just try to make them happy but should also bring everyone closer to each other and build a great relation.
            Next time when you go around and look people that are around you and try to observe them and so you will also get some idea about why and how to bring happiness in other people's life!! Oh,wow have you observed that you have already started observing yourself and so you have started to care other people in that are in your life and of whom you care about.

Monday, May 18, 2015

7 Keys to a Flawless Conversion.

Knowing when to initiate a discussion keeping it interesting. By asking effective questions, sharing own stories and ending dialogue with kindness is an art.
Here are 7 keys described below for an effective conversion with people.

When you are comfortable in your own skin, you makes others comfortable. If you take the attitude that you bring something to the table, you will see that attitude reflected in others.
"Enthusiasm is infectious".

Always be on  the lookout for material. Although it may sound contrived, I read the wall street journal looking for interesting timely information that I can share at my next get together:A party association meeting or business affairs.
Think about keeping a file that you can review before your next event.

Besides showing interest in someone, one simple question can start an entire conversion. Asking something a bit unusual sets you apart from the crowd.
Rather than "What do you do?", ask, "How do you enjoy spending your weekends?".

The surest way to build rapport is to find something you have in common. and build on that interest. Don't shy away from topics that have nothing to do with business. They often create the perfect connection.

Putting your energy and interest in another person marks you as a great conversationalist. Englishman Raymond Mortimer once described the art of conversion in US as "N."

ot tennis, in which you return the other fellow's serve, but golf in which you go on hitting your own ball
Keep that back and forth volley going with conversation.

Excluding someone in a group is a conversion killer. Make eye contact with the everyone in the group, not just a person who asked you a direct question.

When a conversion naturally lulls, take advantage and say "It's been a pleasure talking with you. I hope our paths cross again soon." Before leaving be sure to thank host.

Friday, May 15, 2015

10 inspiring quotes, one must read.

  • “Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.”
  • “Happiness is the art of never holding in your mind the memory of any unpleasant thing that has passed.”
  • “To be happy, we must not be too concerned with others.”
           “If you want happiness for an hour — take a nap.’
            If you want happiness for a day — go fishing.
            If you want happiness for a year — inherit a fortune.
            If you want happiness for a lifetime — help someone else.”
  • “The moments of happiness we enjoy take us by surprise. It is not that we seize them, but that they seize us.”
  • “Don’t rely on someone else for your happiness and self-worth. Only you can be responsible for that. If you can’t love and respect yourself – no one else will be able to make that happen. Accept who you are – completely; the good and the bad – and make changes as YOU see fit – not because you think someone else wants you to be different.”
  • “It isn’t what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about.”
  • “Don’t underestimate the value of Doing Nothing, of just going along, listening to all the things you can’t hear, and not bothering.”
  • “There is only one way to happiness and that is to cease worrying about things which are beyond the power of our will.”
  • “We tend to forget that happiness doesn’t come as a result of getting something we don’t have, but rather of recognizing and appreciating what we do have.”